Tori Spelling Admits She Could See Herself Getting Married Again: 'I Do Love Planning a Wedding'

The 'Beverly Hills, 90210' star said she believes people have a soulmate "for our chapter where it becomes about us"

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Tori Spelling isn't ruling out another marriage.

On the April 8 episode of her podcast misSpelling, the Beverly Hills, 90210 star, 50, tells said she'd be down to eventually tie the knot again with someone — a revelation she's making just over a week after she filed for divorce from her estranged husband Dean McDermott after 18 years of marriage.

"Oh, I do love planning a wedding," she said of the prospect of getting married again someday. "J. Lo did it how many times? Four times? There you go. Sure. Elizabeth Taylor. How many times? Eight? Sure. Why not?"

Spelling added that she feels she functions "better with people" around her — including her children — and that she doesn't "want to be with myself."

"And people are like, 'Wait. That's just a lot. You should be happy with yourself alone.' I haven't been alone ... honestly I still don't poop alone," she revealed. "Like, [my son] Beau still stands there and stares and talks to me, like, while I'm pooping. I haven't pooped, peed alone in 18 years. First it was Dean, then it was kids. I think I function better with people. Is that codependent? Yes. Cool. Redefine it."

Stella Spelling, Tori Spelling, Beau Spelling, Dean McDermott, Finn Spelling, and Hattie Spelling attend the Luskin Orthopaedic Institute for Children, Stand for Kids Gala
Tori Spelling, Dean McDermott and four of their children photographed in June 2023.

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The actress — who shares her five children Liam Aaron McDermott, 17, Stella Doreen, 15, Hattie Margaret, 12, Finn Davey, 11, and Beau Dean, 7, with her former partner — added that she doesn't know if she believes "everyone should end up with the person they have kids with."

"I think while that is your human to create, it comes out of love. Obviously, you have to have so much love to create and keep creating the family," she explained.

"People are like, 'I've been married 50 years. I have kids, grandkids.' I'm like, 'How?' Like, I don't know how. I think I don't know. It's my belief now we have, like, two soulmates or two partners that we're supposed to have. One for that chapter and one for our chapter where it becomes about us."

At some point, Spelling said of her beliefs, life "goes from about us to about others to back to being about us again."

"And yeah, like any partner I have now, I'm sure I'll look at them if they've had kids and be like, 'Wow. I couldn't have had kids with you. Like, it would have just, like, ruined what we have.' "

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Tori Spelling attends the Los Angeles premiere of Freeform's "Cruel Summer" season 2 at Grace E. Simons Lodge on May 31, 2023 in Los Angeles, California.
Tori Spelling in May 2023.

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In the debut episode of her podcast, the actress spoke out for the first time about her March 29 dissolution of marriage filing, revealing that she doesn't "feel worth loving."

“That’s the truth," she said. "And that’s something that’s just in you, it’s not something I wanted or created. That starts when you’re young.”

“I know you can change any point in your life, yeah, yeah, yeah — everyone always says that. But it’s a harder task than we realize,” she explained of her "learned behavior" of diminishing her worth. “Especially if you don’t believe it. People can tell you and tell you and tell you and ‘should, should, should,’ but if you don’t believe it in your soul, in your core, I don’t know how you change that.”

She and her ex, who had been married since 2006, listed their date of separation as June 17, 2023, per divorce documents.

While at the iHeartRadio Music Awards last week, Spelling did tease a new man in her life. The actress shared several snaps from the event to Instagram, including one with Flavor Flav where she planted a kiss on the Public Enemy rapper's cheek.

"My bf," she joked on her Instagram Stories. She also uploaded a clip of the duo hugging and chatting on the yellow carpet.

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